A Fairyologist in the Family!

In the Spring of 2016, I proudly became a Certified Fairyologist!

Against the wishes of a resistant little voice in my head that at first told me not to be so silly and frivolous, I completed Doreen Virtue’s fun and uplifting Fairyologist certificate course… (I had a birthday coming up, so in the end decided to treat myself).

It was a beautiful moment of Divine Timing that unfolded this Spring, but part of a story that really began five and a half years ago, when my daughter was born, and the Fairies moved in.

The birth year of my gorgeous girl was a time of great opening, for me, and for our family as we settled into our new home.

People sent fairy dolls, fairy cards, fairy ornaments… I, being an adult like so many, who had forgotten that fairies may exist at all, found myself once again drawn to images and objects depicting fairies of all kinds. I fell in love with the gorgeous Faery Grotto shop in our town and visited it often with my babies…

Our bare and barren garden began to flourish with all kinds of wild growth… and that year of my little girl’s birth, we grew record-breaking Sunflowers visible across the whole neighbourhood… the Sunflowers are no more, but to this day it is wild and verdant and green and a haven for all kinds of living things, seen and unseen.

My own creativity began to flow again in deep and myriad ways.

There was something so be-Spirited about that time and it continues on;

My daughter is a few more years grown, as is our deep sense of home and my little fairy-craft business that sprang out of that time.  

The fairies moved in, and they never left…

And even though I don’t always see them, there is always a kind of playful magic in the air when we feel our creativity flowing and the right things find their way to us at the right time, in the right way, without us knowing how.   

This Spring, my wonderful, funny, clever, beloved Nanny, passed peacefully away.

The primroses were in bloom and as I glanced at them from the bedroom window, across the bed where she lay. I gently told her all about them, having learned that they were gateways to the Fairy Kingdom, to that other place, the magical garden inside her own beautiful gardens… and as she nodded and smiled at me, I knew deep down that she might already somehow know… for you see, my Nanny’s house was FULL of fairies! Quite literally – so many little fairy figures and images… so much so that a cousin lovingly called our Nanny’s house “The Fairy House”.

I had forgotten all of this, growing up. Quite forgotten. Until these last year’s passed after the Fairies had moved in and I began noticing again…

Who came in with my daughter that year to remind me of this ancestral connection? To remind me that seeing Fairies was not an affliction, a delusion… it was just in my blood… all along. 

I’m so glad that I had the chance to let my magical, Fairy-Butterfly-Angel-loving Nanny know that there was officially a Fairyologist in the family!

To me, it was such a beautiful light-hearted moment of gentle humour and connection that I will always be grateful for, just in time, between Granddaughter and Grandmother, at the end of a this-world lifetime – the passing on of a little flame, for I vow to keep this nature loving Spirit alive in our family as the years go on...

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Faery Lore is ancient, mythic, and world encompassing. Cultures across the world and throughout human history have depicted and engaged with spirits and fairy folk of all kinds. It is not silly or mere escapism from the harsh truths of reality, but something more. It is about Earth kindness, deep environmentalism, respect for Mother Nature, animals, each other, as well as a form of deep Earth-based spirituality. All of this came through in this gorgeous, fun, accessible and practical course created by Doreen Virtue, and inspired me to keep hush the sometimes cynical voice in my head and instead continue enjoy communing with the Fairies and talking to Spirits.

I love William Bloom’s book Working with Angels, Fairies and Nature Spirits and in the introduction he echoes this sentiment:

 “To embrace this parallel dimension is not naïve or superstitious, but fulfilling, holistic and practical. It stimulates ideas and is a source of creativity. It also confers responsibility for our environment and fellow creatures

I adore the creativity and playfulness as well as simple kindnesses and thought for others that engaging with all things Faery has brought to our own family life. It is a kind of anti-dote to all the hi-tech branded things my kids seem to enjoy now that they are getting older… a keeper of the innocence and the faith, as well as just being fun… Indeed, now that I am officially a Fairyologist my son likes to believe that mummy really does have Fairy Magic :-)

As a Fairyologist, I can…

 Answer Fairy questions

♥ Give Fairy readings (although I am still practicing this art!)

 Talk and write about Fairies, mythology and folklore with a little more knowledge and conviction

♥ Hold Fairy walks and parties and invite the fairies too!

 And add a touch of true fairy inspiration and magic into my lovely wool fairies and fairy crafts…

I'm so excited to infuse Forgetful Fairy Art Studio with yet more nature-loving, earth kind, Fairy-ness as I go about my creative work... and hope I manage to spread a little more Fairy love as I do so, for...



"Nothing can be truer than fairy wisdom. It is as true as sunbeams."

Douglas Jerrod,  Specimens of Jerrold's WitFairy Tales, reported in Hoyt's New Cyclopedia Of Practical Quotations (1922, p. 253-54.) (https://en.wikiquote.org/wiki/Fairies)